Narcissistic abuse or emotional abuse can be one of the most traumatizing things to ever happen in our lives. You feel confused, distraught, and sometimes powerless. The hurt we endure from the emotional rollercoaster of pathological behavior and unfair treatment from narcissists and emotional abusers can feel completely overwhelming. Even our self-esteem can be affected.
I’ve endured narcissistic abuse and emotional abuse in my life. I know what it feels like to ‘walk on eggshells’ while trying to make dysfunctional relationships work. After ‘doing the work’ of inner reflection, healing my codependency, and learning to set and enforce boundaries, I realized we can compromise many things in relationships, but we should never compromise who we are.
Healthy relationships are based on true understanding, stability, loyalty, authentic connection, and transparency. I now help clients break free from the trauma bonds of intimate partners, family, friends, and other toxic relationships. It’s time to break the cycle. I am ready to help you heal and start living a life that is open to new possibilities, healthy love, and exciting purpose!
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach
Adult / Child Survivor & Thriver
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach
Adult / Child Survivor & Thriver
You’ve learned you are likely dealing with a narcissist or emotional abuser. The feeling of “not being enough”, being exhausted trying to make things right, and even being afraid to stand up for yourself can be stressful and cause anxiety or even PTSD. Although healing can be an ongoing process, there are four major stages.
Now that you have physically and emotionally suffered for so long, you know you can’t go on like this. In coaching, you will gain insight into your trauma bond and start to unravel the brain fog and confusion around what happened. I will guide you through "no contact" or "extremely limited contact" with toxic people in your life and help you detox your life so you can start your new healing journey.
It’s time to take a deep dive into your life from childhood into adulthood. We look into your environment growing up, past relationships, and discuss your current relationships and your life in general. I also help you deal with complex emotions from the abuse. We start by healing your subconscious mind. This is really where the hard work begins.
Your self-awareness, self-love, and self-worth are at the forefront, and you now see yourself again through healthy eyes, not the eyes of the abuser. In this stage, you set boundaries and enforce them when needed. You finally fully acknowledge what you went through. You are finally feeling acceptance and have become proud of your strength and courage.
You finally feel free and empowered. You love the people around you, and they love you back in healthy ways. You're re-acquainted with your authentic self and feel confident in your abilities. You enjoy newfound happiness and inner peace. Now you're using the tools you've been given in my coaching to live a life where you can help others and develop healthy relationships.
You’ve learned you are likely dealing with a narcissist or emotional abuser. The feeling of “not being enough”, being exhausted trying to make things right, and even being afraid to stand up for yourself can be stressful and cause anxiety or even PTSD. Although healing can be an ongoing process, there are four major stages. Let’s connect on a discovery call and see if we can work together.
Narcissistic abuse is a soul-crushing form of trauma because it slowly builds up like an avalanche. Many times, people stumble onto narcissistic abuse after researching the hard-to-explain emotional exhaustion of their relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) can be hard to pin down when trying to figure out what is “wrong with them”. People with NPD can be emotionally, verbally, financially, psychologically, and physically abusive towards those closest to them. Narcissists tend to have many secrets and wear multiple masks. Discovering who (or what) you have been dealing with can take years to finally figure out, especially if you are dealing with a covert narcissist. This type of narcissist goes “under the radar” and is very hard to detect.
Narcissists live in what is called a “narcissistic abuse cycle.
The narcissistic abuse cycle is a pattern of highs and lows in which the narcissist confuses their target through manipulation and calculated behaviors aimed at making their partner question themselves and their self-worth. The cycle has three specific phases: idealization (or love bombing), devaluation, and rejection (or devaluation). From pathological lying and mind games to being downright cruel at times and selfish, narcissists can have an arsenal of tactics they use to keep their targets under their power and control.
With guidance, willingness, and courage to heal, narcissistic abuse can actually be the catalyst for truly loving yourself completely for the first time in your entire life!
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